Posing 101: Natural Tips for Stunning Wedding Photos

Let’s be honest—posing for photos on your wedding day can feel a little awkward at first. After all, most of us aren’t used to having a camera follow us around all day! But here’s the thing: it doesn’t have to be stiff or stressful.

As your photographer, my goal is to make the experience fun and relaxed so that your love story shines through naturally. Over the years, I’ve learned a few tips and tricks that help couples feel like their best (and most photogenic) selves. Here’s how we can work together to make your photos as effortless and stunning as your love story.

The best photos happen when you’re simply being yourselves. Instead of thinking about where to look or how to stand, focus on your partner. Hold hands, steal a quick kiss, or whisper something sweet—or hilariously goofy—to make each other laugh. Trust me, those candid moments are pure magic.

If standing still feels awkward, it’s because it is! Movement brings life to your photos. Take a stroll, twirl your dress, or just sway gently while holding each other close. These simple actions not only help you relax but also create gorgeous, natural-looking images that don’t feel posed.

I’ll be there every step of the way to guide you into flattering, comfortable poses that feel right for you. Whether it’s helping you find the perfect angle, reminding you to relax your shoulders, or cracking a silly joke to ease your nerves, I’ve got your back. All you have to do is be present with your partner.

Some of my favorite photos come from the unplanned moments—like a breeze catching your veil or an unexpected laugh during the vows. These “imperfect” moments often tell the most beautiful and authentic stories. So, don’t stress over perfection; just enjoy the ride.

This is one reason I love engagement sessions—they’re like a dress rehearsal for your wedding day! It’s the perfect opportunity to get comfortable in front of the camera and learn what poses feel natural for you. Plus, it’s just a fun way to celebrate your love before the big day.

Good posture is key to looking your best in photos. Stand tall, but keep it natural—no stiff, military-style stances! Relax your shoulders, avoid locking your knees, and let your arms rest gently. If you start to feel nervous, take a deep breath and focus on the joy of the moment.

Ever wonder what to do with your hands in photos? You’re not alone—it’s one of the most common questions I get! The answer is simple: keep them busy. Hold your bouquet, gently rest your hand on your partner’s chest, or interlock your fingers. Small, natural gestures go a long way.

Your venue is more than just a backdrop—it’s part of your story! Whether it’s a sweeping mountain view, a cozy barn, or a sunlit meadow, we’ll use the setting to inspire stunning, one-of-a-kind photos. Don’t worry—I’ll guide you to the best spots and lighting!

You don’t have to be smiling in every single photo! A quiet, loving gaze or a soft, natural expression can be just as beautiful as a big, joyful grin. Whatever emotion feels authentic in the moment, go with it.

Above all, remember this: your wedding day is about celebrating your love. The more you focus on each other and the joy of the day, the better your photos will turn out. Let me handle the posing and the technical stuff—you just live in the moment.

When it’s all said and done, your photos should feel like you. With these tips (and a little help from me), I promise you’ll feel relaxed and confident in front of the camera. And hey, if you’re still feeling nervous, let’s chat! I’d love to help you create a wedding day photography experience you’ll always remember.

Looking for a photographer who captures natural, heartfelt moments? Let’s make some magic together!